Manjila's story – sister and young carer
Life in lockdown is challenging for most people, but it is particularly hard for young carers, who have the responsibility of caring for a family member.
Manjila, 17, has been caring for her sister nearly all of her life.
A typical day for Manjila, who lives in the borough, involves getting up at 5am to study. Once her sister wakes up, around 7am, she prepares breakfast, helps her get dressed and take her medicine. They draw together, which her sister loves, and they name the colours they are using.
She said: “Caring for my sister is all I have really known. Both her and I have an amazing relationship and facing the challenges that her health condition brings has made us strong and resilient.
“I find it really rewarding to help her have a better quality of life. It’s hard for people to understand what being a carer is like, especially having to explain to newfound friends. Sometimes I have to drop everything at short notice to help my sister.”
Manjila receives support in the form of a local young carer service, run by Brentford Football Club Community Trust and commissioned by Hounslow Council, which is a lifeline to her.
She said: “They provide a range of activities and trips where I can make friends with people who understand my situation and have someone to talk to which helps me keep everything balanced.”
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